Now you might be thinking to yourself that this blog post title is far out. You might think that I’ve gone crazy with the blog title. Well, listen to me. I’m not saying that you should pretend to be Mark Zuckerberg and build your own porno version of Facebook. I’m not saying that at all. After all, Fuckbook has been around for a while. It’s doing quite well and it’s not going to go away anytime soon. That’s not what I’m talking about. What I’m talking about is when you join an adult social site you are actually helping to build it. How? By simply being there.

You have to remember that adult social sites like http://www.findfuckfriends.com are not just places where you can have sex anonymously with people in your local area. While that happens a lot and that’s those websites’ main draw, there’s a lot more to these sites than that. If anything, these websites have a strong social component and real communities form around them. This is where building comes in. Whenever you join any type of website whether as a blog commenter, a forum poster or a social networking member , you can help build that site. You can give a distinct personality to that platform. This is why Facebook is as successful as it is. Because it attracted the right people which then pulled in other people, who in turn, pulled in other people. Do you see how all this works out?

Now can you imagine if Facebook attracted assholes from day one? Who are the kind of people assholes, jerk offs and scumbags would pull in? I will let your imagination run wild on that one. If that was the case do you think Facebook will be as successful as it is now? Pretty straightforward. So that’s how important community building is. When you join these adult social sites you can build a great community. How do you do it? First and foremost, be clear as to your objectives. If you’re just looking primarily for sex, that should be your interaction and that’s going to show up in the personality of the website. If you’re looking for friendships, on the other hand, that’s going to show up as well.

Second, you need to be supportive of other people. If other people are going through tough times in their relationships or they’re personally depressed or anxious, be there. Sure people understand that the sex is always a part of the picture but by showing genuine concern, the community aspect of the adult social sites that you’re a member of becomes readily apparent.

Finally, become part of the police force. I’m not talking about putting on a sexy police uniform and falsely arresting online women and having sex with them with your night stick. I’m not talking about that. What I’m talking about is when there are jerk offs harassing people and otherwise contaminating the social interchange on the adult social site, you need to step up. You need to report those bastards so that they don’t poison the overall community of that site.